I was so sorry to hear about Jud's death. He and I, being first cousins, were playmates from an early age. I have a good photo of Jud at what I think was my tenth birthday party, and I'll try to get it copied and forward it wherever it needs to go. As far back as I can remember, Jud was extremely outgoing, friendly, and confident. We went to different high schools (he went to high school at MBA) and colleges (he went to Vanderbilt and also Vanderbilt Law School), and I spent a 4-year tour in the Air Force, so we didn't see much of each other after childhood until about 1974. At that time I had met my future wife, Carol, and she lived a few blocks away from where Jud and Christy lived near Estes Blvd (I can't remember the street name). We would periodically stop by his house for chats with him and Christy, and we were fascinated by what he was doing--installing numerous recessed lights and completely re-wiring the electrical system on the main floor of their home. He had torn out the sheetrock, and had installed many complex sets of dimmers and switches. It was as if the total focus of his attention had shifted away from his ordinary legal work toward learning the details of electrical wiring.
My memories of our conversations at that time are vague, but it was my impression that he felt stifled by his role in a conservative law office, and had become something of a "rebel without a cause." I know that he began riding a motorcycle to work, and that was not considered an appropriate form of transportation for a young upcoming lawyer in Nashville at that time. It was as if his life had followed "a standard track" up to a certain point (ie. go to good schools, make good grades, get married, buy a house, have children, establish a career, become successful, etc), and then he felt the need to break free from the consensus reality and "find himself."
My other impression, which may or may not be accurate, is that much of his rebellion was caused by his perception that his father did not accept him as he was. His father, like most other conservative southern aristocratic gentlemen, could only accept and respect what he understood, and Jud lost interest in meeting those kinds of expectations. I think Jud was saying, in essence, "Love me the way I am and not according to any set of socially-acceptable set of ideas." I don;t think Uncle Judson was able to do that, and I suspect that Jud's direction "off the beaten track" was due to (1) boredom with "the standard track" and (2) the need to discover who he was and "become his own person."
It was always obvious that Jud was brilliant, and his intensity of focus was amazing. He and his daughters visited Carol and me in 1976 on our isolated farm near Monterey, TN., and they spent a delightful day with us. He rode horses with me, and he was so confident of his abilities that he was like a force of nature. We didn't know if our two new horses were fully safe to ride, but that didn't stop Jud for a second. He jumped on the larger horse, took off at a gallop, and I hoped that the horse would realize what it was dealing with and not get too rambunctious. ha ha!
Some time in the 1980's I heard that Jud had moved to England, was studying tax law, and had started writing a tax advisory publication. At one point he sent me some of his newsletters, but I had no money and virtually no income at that time, so I didn't have to worry about tax issues! ha ha.
A few years later, he called me from England because he had become fixated on Ronald Reagan, and wanted to get him impeached. He wanted me to join him in his crusade and sign a petition for impeachment, but I literally laughed out loud at this request. I told him that I was apolitical and only interested in spirituality. It was a very funny conversation! Subsequently, I got a call from the Secret Service asking me about Jud, and I assumed that his animosity toward Reagan's presidency had come to their attention. This may have occurred during the time of the Iran-Contra scandal.
The last time I spent any time with Jud was when he returned to the states for the funeral of his father. At that time he was just as friendly and outgoing as ever, and I had the impression that he was a happy English eccentric. He had long since sold his tax newsletter, and he told us that he was then living on welfare. He asked about our lives and family, and seemed genuinely interested in everything that everyone was doing. He mentioned owning chickens and various other odd bits of information about his life. One of his classmates from many years earlier offered to give him some land in Tennessee where he could come live, but it was obvious to me that he was happy in England and was unlikely to leave.
You asked about heart disease. There is heart disease in the family, but whether someone has a bad blood profile or not is a matter of genetic luck. Jud's Dad lived to the age of 92. My dad had congestive heart failure, but he still lived to 90. Aunt Julia also lived to 90. Victor Harwood's father, (Victor was a third cousin), died of heart failure in his 50's. Victor (also a lawyer like his father and sister), ran marathons and went to great lengths to stay healthy (because he knew that heart disease was present in his family), but he died of a heart attack at about the age of 63. Victor checked his cholesterol level and triglycerides, but I don't think he knew about "small molecule LDL's" and the importance of keeping that number low via statins or Niaspan, and also the importance of limiting carbohydrate intake.
I contacted Dr. Sam Glasgow, a former classmate of Jud's, who lives here in Cookeville, and Sam said that he would forward your letter and the notice of Jud's death to his other classmates. Some of those people, such as Pete Moss and other friends, may have additional information to share. I will also go through my files of photographs, and forward any that I can find.
Cousin Bob Harwood